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Sunday, December 20, 2015

FRIENDSHIP ASSESSMENT

December 20, 2015

Recently I’ve been thinking about friendship. I’m not referring to social media friends I’ve never interacted with face-to-face or by telephone, but to other people in my life.  I recently posted to Facebook:  Apart from Facebook, people who use the Internet but don't read my ♥Angel-Light Beamer♥ blog site articles--either one at a time as they are posted--or several at a time every couple of weeks or once a month—aren’t my friends but, rather, acquaintances. Friends who read my blog articles are also familiar with the “home page” information in the right-side column and, thus, know more about me than acquaintances.  I would welcome a notification or invite to become familiar with the blogs of Facebook friends.

The thoughts of “Cosmic” (my word) Carla Fox about friendship in her blog of December 19, 2015 titled, “Winter Solstice Preparations” are more in depth:  “As I start my year’s review, I find that at least related to recent events, I am assessing yet another friendship.  Now, my criteria of whether a friendship is working for me are probably very different from yours, but I highly value balance and a conscious give and take of communication and interaction.  There should also be mutual respect on both sides.  Again, that may be just me, and others may not be bothered much if they are doing more of the giving or catering more to the other person’s whims a lot of the time. Of course, the other end of this is taking responsibility for your part within the dysfunction of any relationship.  It takes “two to tango” as the saying goes.  So I will be looking at where I have felt used and how I colluded with that dynamic, where I failed to speak up, where I was in denial of things that happened, and where I gave my power away.  Is this friendship to continue on the same path?  Do I clarify my position, back up, or back off completely?   Have I been barking up the wrong tree altogether with this person?  Was I not clear from the get-go of the role I was expected to play?   My intent for the New Year regarding this will be to gain some much needed clarity and to create something new that is more in alignment with who I am and who I am becoming.” 

If Carla’s words about assessing friendship strike a chord with the reader, you may want to check out the many articles on her site http://thecarlafoxblog.blogspot.com.  Carla covers a variety of topics in her writings—including those I label “cosmic.”

I Am Angel-Light Love of Texas, needing a wonderful automobile for my use now, with good to all concerned and no harm to any.  Through this physical embodiment, we the Angel-Light Team have facilitated the awakening, liberation, healing, wellbeing, enlightenment, and ascension of people around the world for over 25 years. Our ministry, currently named Healing Love Lighthouse, became official in 1990.  Healing Love Lighthouse isn't a fee-for-services ministry, but a heart-centered ministry supported by donations to Angel-Light Love. If this article has benefited you in some way, please consider supporting the health and wellbeing of Angel-Light using the link on the ♥Angel-Light Beamer♥ at http://angel-light-love-healing.blogspot.com or directly to Angel-Light Love at the address on site (funds, Amazon gift cards, Walmart shopping cards).  May all be well with you.  May there be plenty for you. 

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