FRIENDSHIP ASSESSMENT
by Angel-Light Love of
Texas
Spiritual &
Metaphysical Healing/Wellbeing Facilitator
(Spirit-Mind-Body-Environment)
December 20, 2015 on ♥Angel-Light
Beamer♥
https://angel-light-love-healing.blogspot.com
Recently
I’ve been thinking about friendship. I’m not referring to social media friends
I’ve never interacted with face-to-face or by telephone, but to other people in
my life. I recently posted to
Facebook: Apart from Facebook, people
who use the Internet but don't read my ♥Angel-Light Beamer♥ blog site articles--either
one at a time as they are posted--or several at a time every couple of weeks or
once a month—aren’t my friends but, rather, acquaintances. Friends who read my
blog articles are also familiar with the “home page” information in the
right-side column and, thus, know more about me than acquaintances. I would welcome a notification or invite to
become familiar with the blogs of Facebook friends.
The
thoughts of “Cosmic” (my word) Carla Fox about friendship in her blog of December
19, 2015 titled, “Winter Solstice Preparations” are more in depth: “As I start my year’s review, I find that at
least related to recent events, I am assessing yet another friendship. Now, my criteria of whether a friendship is
working for me are probably very different from yours, but I highly value
balance and a conscious give and take of communication and interaction. There should also be mutual respect on both
sides. Again, that may be just me, and
others may not be bothered much if they are doing more of the giving or
catering more to the other person’s whims a lot of the time. Of course, the
other end of this is taking responsibility for your part within the dysfunction
of any relationship. It takes “two to
tango” as the saying goes. So I will be
looking at where I have felt used and how I colluded with that dynamic, where I
failed to speak up, where I was in denial of things that happened, and where I
gave my power away. Is this friendship
to continue on the same path? Do I
clarify my position, back up, or back off completely? Have I been barking up the wrong tree
altogether with this person? Was I not
clear from the get-go of the role I was expected to play? My intent for the New Year regarding this
will be to gain some much needed clarity and to create something new that is
more in alignment with who I am and who I am becoming.”
If
Carla’s words about assessing friendship strike a chord with the reader, you
may want to check out the many articles on her site http://thecarlafoxblog.blogspot.com. Carla covers a variety of topics in her
writings—including those I label “cosmic.”
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